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What do you do when, after being shot down by an 8/9, you're immediately swarmed by 2's and 3's? (self.asktrp)

submitted by ialdabaoth

This happens pretty regularly - I attempt to approach an 8 or 9 at a party, get rejected hard, and then spend the entire rest of the party being constantly harassed by 2s and 3s, and the occasional M2F pre-op transexual.

  • If I attempt to brush them off or reject their advances, I am immediately attacked by the 7s, 8s and 9s for being awful and mean and shallow.

  • If I don't, then I literally cannot get rid of them; sometimes to the point that I can't even go back to having interesting conversation with the guys.

  • If I try to ACTUALLY be mean or shallow, I get asked to leave the party (even if the guys who the 8/9 has been flirting with has been actively mean and everyone laughed about it).

I'm pretty certain this isn't a "lift more" problem, because I am clearly in better physical shape than the guys that are successful at the same parties.

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[–]1oldredder 2 points3 points  (1 child)

ummm not sure if troll post

but if not, you are ugly. Really, really ugly, and low-value to all of these people.

You should ditch the entire social group if that's how they treat you. Maybe the same thing happens in another but worth a shot.

Those 8/9 women would NOT go with men who are 2/10 or 3/10.

At the very least you should test this across multiple social groups WHO DO NOT KNOW EACH OTHER and be honest to yourself about face-attractiveness. You can fix some things with lifting but not that.

[–]ialdabaoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I'm not really sure what goes into male facial attractiveness other than symmetry and lack of pockmarks - and I'm probably way too familiar with my own face to judge it against others. Is there an objective way of 'being honest with myself' about facial attractiveness?

[–]quicklogaccount 0 points1 point  (4 children)

This isn't common, but some girls are a bit like vultures. You were shot down by the 9, your value was lowered and they think your nes value is on their range.

You must be gaming girls in very small environments for this to happen. Parties of friends and acquaintances?

[–]ialdabaoth[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Yep, parties of friends and acquaintances.

[–]quicklogaccount 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I guess it is that then. Your value is taking blows.

[–]ialdabaoth[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

The problem is, as long as I'm getting swarmed by 3's, my value stays low, and I can't get anyone above a 4 to want to notice me. What do?

[–]quicklogaccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Find better environments to game at. More targets and with less spreading of information;
  • Thread more carefully with high tier women;
  • Improve your looks. 2s and 3s shouldn't swarm on you;

I can't get anyone above a 4 to want to notice me.

Well, go and talk to them.

[–]0kool74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and the occasional M2F pre-op transsexual

Mooshell Obama is showing up to your parties??? LMAO