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Fetishes, philias, and simple turn-ons.
I realized today that my long-standing bibliophilia has gradually turned sexual. I'm not sexually attracted to books, though. I just find that any girl who would be moderately cute in another context is blood-pressure-popping hot if she works in a library or bookstore and demonstrates substantial literacy.
Share your own.
Women in wet clothing for me. Don't need to be see-through like on wet-tshirt contests or anything, just wet everyday clothing gets some strong... err... reaction from me.
I'll keep most of mine to myself, but I love (love, love) the sight of a topless woman wearing jeans. Always have.
One of my more innocuous kinks is that my body type preferences for each gender go directly against the typical body image. I find strong jawlines, rippling biceps, washboard abs, etc. attractive in women - but in men, my tastes tend strictly to the pretty-boy, even effeminate end of the spectrum. For a while I thought I was just into androgyny, but that's not precisely true: it wouldn't be inaccurate to state that the women I find most attractive are more masculine than the guys I find most attractive, and similarly, that the guys I find most attractive are more feminine than their female counterparts.
(When I write up RPG settings, I have to consciously avoid reversing the gender stereotypes - if I'm not careful I find myself doing it without thinking, and I've decided that I'm not going to bring my kinks into my gaming. ^^; )
Interesting. I tend to lean that way myself.Quote:
Originally Posted by David J Prokopetz
I think it would be easier for me to list what I do not like. :p
Eyeglasses.
I find that women who wear eyeglasses are more attractive to me than women without.
Come to think of it, while not curious about batting for the other team at all, I find men more handsome when they wear eyeglasses.
Dammit, you stole mine.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jeff Hopper
Took me most of high school to figure it out.
Despite my feminist leanings, I must confess to have a minor domination/rape fetish. Probably also linked to why I play fighters in RPGs most of the time - I like to feel physically powerful.
Women being mean or bitchy in a very stylised way. It's something I can't tolerate in real life, but it gets me going sexually...
One of our playmates was talking about her love of edgeplay tonight.
The conversation was somewhat shaking, but damn...we went at it like rabid weasels when we got home :D
I happen to like modesty. Shyness. Demureness. Whatever. Classic "virtues" of feminity and classic good looks do it for me - I just can't get into exotic-looking or -acting women at all.
I'm sorry but...does this mean you like Anne Coulter? :oQuote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
Not unless she's being mean to me personally, and actually doing it because she likes me. So... no.Quote:
Originally Posted by radiant song
Being a librarian, I can only deplore that it's apparently not nearly as common for women to go crazy over male librarians. :pQuote:
Originally Posted by WyzardWhately
Librarians, Eyeglasses, Redheads. Guilty as charged.
Not that it's particularly uncommon, but I'm into a fair amount of BDSM stuff*. Also (like SteveD, despite feminist leanings), a bit of a simulated rape fetish. For me, it's all about the control.
*At least in theory, I'm a virgin.
I have a bit of a thing for lesbian vampires. This may stem back to a really vivid dream I had several years ago.
Also, lesbians with swords. That one is probably from watching Revolutionary Girl Utena too many times. :o
I do that by just BEING physically powerful :D Probably why I tend to play thieves and wizards....Quote:
Originally Posted by SteveD
You know, I don't have anything I'd really consider a kink. Physical preferences in people (short, dark hair, "tennis" level athletic) and fairly vanilla sexual escapades are about the extent of it for me. Not that I'm not into a small amount of light bondage (either way), or a little roleplaying or anything... it's just that I consider that pretty par for the course for my generation and thus "vanilla."
Ditto, but from the opposite perspective, I think. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by SteveD
There is no such thing as watching Utena too many times! Unless you mean the movie, and without alcohol.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gloombunny
I don’t think I’ve got any. That’s so depressing…
Honestly, the only internal reaction I get to the kind of stuff people talk about in here is that Ren and Stimpy radio-noise. It’s not even an ‘Ew’, just the same kind of feeling I get looking at painting scrawled by someone else’s child and stuck to their fridge with a plastic banana: I’m seeing something unattractive, pointless, incomprehensible and a bit silly. Obviously it means a great deal to the people involved, but to me it’s just dull blobs.
Then again, my favourite flavour of ice-cream is vanilla. Really. Maybe that says quite a lot.
Like other people, glasses are one, and also, tight sweaters. Not sweatshirts, though. Thinking about that, skirts, too, as long as they aren't too short. Hee. Basically Velma from Scooby doo.
Then again, I don't think they are weird. Weird might be every so often wondering what it would be like to be a sex slave. Which I do think about sometimes.
True. Kick in IQ and maybe a few geeky interests, and off I go. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by WyzardWhately
I'm also a switch, and haven't anything against a little footplay. Me playing with a lady's feet, that is. ;)
Other than that, I'll keep my kinks to myself. They're either innocent or kinky enough to not want me to share them quite yet. ;)
A woman's ass is the primary filter in determining their attractiveness to me. If they have a nice ass, I'll start considering other factors. If they don't, I won't even bother.
Women in t-shirt and jeans
Glasses
I'm not seeing a lot of weirdness here.
Is it just me?
RPG.net isn't really the best place to discuss personal sexual peccadilloes, I suspect people are being careful with what they let out of the bag :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
It's important, yes, but not that much for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kiero
And yes, we're careful what we let out of the bag here.
I'm not being careful, I don't find a lot of "kink" appealing. Most of it seems too contrived for me.
Although I am six foot two and weight about 250 pounds and can crush clams with my fists, I am believe I am five foot four and weak as a kitten.Quote:
Originally Posted by AikiGhost
Gamers have plenty of ways to engage their imaginations, so tend to be, in the real world, rather practical. IME.Quote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
Yeah, but I find your gingham fixation significantly more odd than your mild interest in BDSM.Quote:
Originally Posted by SteveD
Physically-
Men its boxer briefs, specifically Calvin Klein.
First of all, your memory terrifies me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
Second of all, I see your point: many of us have responded by grouping our preferences in pre-defined categories, rather than elaborating on the more unique and specific parts of our interior sexuality.
Gingham sundresses and plaid skirts. Not schoolgirl per se but SUNDAY SCHOOL. I enjoy a bit of a religious twist at times, as another form of taboo-breaking and control. Taboo breaking is another thing I find alluring in general. It's appealing when sex is inherently naughty.
Nah, as it's also my preferred flavour and I'm decidedly not vanilla any other way.Quote:
Originally Posted by UKPete
Two things for me:
Mainstream attractiveness: Graceful movement, and intelligence, good humour, engagement, and compassion between the eyes. (I'm very lucky to be going out with someone with 16 years of ballet training, an IQ of over 180 and a seeming desire to become a saint).
Kinks: my weird one is hypnosis.
<img src=http://users.rcn.com/aburner/eq/skeezy.gif>Quote:
Originally Posted by SteveD
It's not even that. I see a lot of people saying "Well I like..." and it's not anything particularly weird.Quote:
Originally Posted by SteveD
I mean, I find leggy women wearing business suits and mini skirts to be incredibly hot, but I don't know if it's really "weird" in the sense that the original poster had in mind. Hell, Cake has a song about it: "Long Jacket, Short Skirt"
Gingham dresses, on the other hand, probably is, because it's unusual. I don't think Cake has a song about erotic gingham dresses.
THAT'S THE SPIRIT!Quote:
Originally Posted by SteveD
Damn. There goes my nascent paper on how flavor metaphors are reality.Quote:
Originally Posted by Phantom Stranger
Q: Is sex dirty?Quote:
Originally Posted by SteveD
A: It is if you're doing it right.
Nope. Not just you. I think mine if I were to discuss them would be downright shocking compared to what we have listed so far. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
Call it a lack of imagination, but I'm into "real"...almost always amateur stuff, or at least professionals acting like amateurs. Costumes and leather do nothing for me. When it is obviously meant to turn me on in a true "porn" fashion, it fails.
Topless in jeans (like another poster mentioned earlier) is great though. I'm also into "wet" (shower or perhaps oil). When it comes to scenario's, I can appreciate taboo's like incest. Women seducing men against their will (up to and including rape) is nice as well, as long as it stays...normal (:p). You bring out the leather or whips and it's gone.
I don't even think it has to be shocking. I worked with a girl who said her biggest, #1, never-fail turn-on was seeing a man wearing nothing but jeans, shaving. I think that would also qualify as "weird" under what I perceive to be the original poster's intent.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
Really? Huh. That's rather mainstream. They've had commercials playing on that for decades.Quote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
Alternatively, we're all broad-spectrum perverts, so nothing we do is scary to one another. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by AikiGhost
As for myself, besides the whole anthro thing, I've got a fondness of strong women; both muscular, physically tough ones, and capable, confident ones. Just like SteveD and Deadmanwalking, I also harbor mild rape and domination fantasies.
Combining that with the interest in tough gals above, this leads to what I might call "action fantasy": women getting in peril, and getting out of it again. (If they have furry characteristics, so much the better. ;) )
So many kinks so little time. To touch upon some of the previous ones the force/rape play is one, and I am a Daddy Dom in the BDSM world myself.
Now onto my biggest kink. Clothing, I am one of those who a clothing catalog is more porn for me, then a Playboy. And I have specific clothing things I like: skirts and dresses, with hosiery (stockings, hose, tights), the hosiery preferably not of the nude or tan variety. And the clothing needs to be real, not slutty or trashy, something you could wear on the street, not stripper wear.
And this is the tip of the kink iceberg, I could write an essay on how I feel about control as a kink
Jeremy
For general proclivity, it's all about smaller women. Shorter than me, of proportionate weight, small breasts. What can I say? I'm an ass man from way back. Now, this is moot if she doesn't have blue eyes. I'm a sucker for the blue eyed girl, and the "how you doin'?" reaction doesn't kick in until I notice the eyes. And, of course, if she's a natural redhead, that just trumps everything. Freckles are awesome.
In terms of porn, strong, powerful women enjoying anal intercourse and other such things. It's rarer than one would think. A lot of them fake it. And when it comes to faking it, I've started to get a sixth sense about it.
Now, in terms of actual fetish, I only have one. I like women who swallow. Don't know why. Just knowing that she'll take what you generously give her and knock it back like a jello-shooter on happy hour, it just gets me right wound up.
"My dog's better than your dog, My dog's better than yours. My dog's better 'cause He eats Ken-L-Ration, My dog's better than yours."Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakboth
;)
See? There's a widely (unfairly) deriding grouping and you just up and said it.Quote:
As for myself, besides the whole anthro thing, I've got a fondness of strong women; both muscular, physically tough ones, and capable, confident ones. Just like SteveD and Deadmanwalking, I also harbor mild rape and domination fantasies.
Combining that with the interest in tough gals above, this leads to what I might call "action fantasy": women getting in peril, and getting out of it again. (If they have furry characteristics, so much the better. ;) )
(The Ken-L Ration quote was used before noticing that part btw)
About as shocking as hearing that you like to eat a big spoonful of flour on occasion, actually.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
Really, does anyone get ‘shocked’ these days? Seriously, I’m curious. It’s not something I’ve ever felt.
The furry bit, you mean? Well, I'd think it's a known thing by now. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by jamasiel
I'll take all of the above, thanks. Yes, including the furry. And the butch women. And especially the Sunday school one. Especially the BDSM - I'm fond of ropes and scaffolding, in particular, and would love to learn shibari (Japanese bondage).
I'm a wide-spectrum pervert, and I'm proud of it. :)
Maybe so, but in the case of this particular woman, there was an exacting specificity to the thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
The man had to be:
-shaving his face with shaving cream and disposable razor. (Not: shaving his face with electric razor, shaving his face with straight razor, brushing his teeth, styling his hair, etc)
-bare-chested and barefoot. (Not: Undershirt, wife-beater, etc. Not: Shoes, flip-flops, socks, etc)
-wearing blue jeans specifically. (Not: slacks, briefs, boxers, khakis, shorts, etc)
I mention all of those specific things because they actually came up in conversation. According to her, if you varied any of the above in any way no matter how minor, it went from "OMG SO HOT" to a "Meh".
It was the specificity that always struck me as odd.
Can you say a little more about this (if only to satisfy my curiosity)?Quote:
Originally Posted by neonchameleon
I'd guess a form of dom/sub. Though, thinking about it, you could probably try other forms of suggestion in there, too... inhibition suppression?Quote:
Originally Posted by Hafwit
Some really tame stuff. Glasses, skirts, neck ties, teasing, VAST.
I'm not as big as that but I'm pretty handy in a fist fight, I also have what one of my wrestling trainers calls (in a very unPC way) "Retard Strength" :DQuote:
Originally Posted by SteveD
Just yesterday I picked up a 19 stone muscular police officer and dumped him unceremoniously on his back (In training of course).
I think it's weird enough in its own right.Quote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
To me, I acknowledge that even my most extreme interests are often thought of as shocking in relation to a common cultural image of a near-imaginary WASP-suburban middle-aged types with the most mundane sensibilities and low-tolerance. Throw this into a culture that is so varied ("Jocks just think about sports - Nerds think about sex.") and (IME) overlapping with goth-industrial and then fetish/bdsm scenes pretty readily, the mere existence of anything but the most intense kinks are probably something we have first tier friends doing, if not doing ourselves - and most of those particular kinks are because they violate health, safety, justifiably legal or fairly deep moral standards.
So I just threw in a passing comment (which wasn't even about my current kink) knowing that while I could probably up the ante in some regards, others could kick the kinky sand in my face and walk away with my fetishes over their shoulder. And I suck at the one-upsmanship game :P
Wakboth:
Yeah, I think I even remember you mentioning it in a different context - it just seems to be a group that despite causing no inherent harm, even Open Minded People feel free to mock, but there you go. Good on you ;)
I greet you as a brother!Quote:
Originally Posted by David J Prokopetz
The other things that come to mind are really closer to interests that happen to remain interesting in a sexual context as opposed to kinks per se. The whole furry/anthro thing and a mild case of macrophilia, although most of the sites I've found on the Internet don't much hold my interest and are really kind of sad in some ways. Neither is primarily sexual; I just think animal-people look neat and so do Godzilla movies; it just doesn't hurt at all when it is.
I didn't mention my main kinks because, it seemed to me, the tone of the thread was favoring quirky interests rather than major fetishes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
But, if you like...
Oil is good, but I'll pass on the water. I'd prefer pudding, porridge, mud, glycerin, maybe paint... hell, if you can put it in a bucket and pour it over me I probably like it. :o Whipped cream is also very good, though not pourable.Quote:
Originally Posted by Azulthar
I have to stop and think about it, but, when I do, I realize I can split mine into the 'mainstream' and 'weird' headers.
Mainstream: Raver-girl clothes do it for me bigtime. Bright colors, mismatched patterns, et cetera. The same goes for glasses, sneakers with knee-high socks and pigtails. Nothing odd there.
Somewhere in between: Girls in tank-tops and camo pants are wonderful. So are girls who are dirty, in the "I've been working in the garden all day and have dirt under my fingernails and some motor oil on my face and at least an hour's worth of dried sweat on my skin" sense.
Weirder Kinks: Gynoids. Female robots, human-looking or otherwise. I can't watch "My Life as a Teenage Robot" in good conscience anymore.
Electricity. Not shock-torture, but the idea of being hooked into a mainline and not, you know, dying, or some aspect thereof, is very...not unpleasant for me.
Cult-level control. Not so much Dom/Sub stuff, but rather, I want followers. Hundreds of them. Worshipping me as a God. Doing my bidding. Begging for my affection. Carving great obsidian and ruby idols in my image. Throwing themselves at my feet. I want to be Pharaoh, Emperor and God-King all in one. It's not just for the free dancing girls, either.
I will also admit to a vague sexual attraction to ghosts, but my inquisitive nature overrides it mostly.
That stuff feels oddly good to admit to. :o
It's always been cute gals with short hair. Not man style, but bobs and pixie cuts. Winona Ryder, Audrey Hepburn, Linda Evangalista. Still haven't figured out why. Maybe I like necks.
Also going to plus one the women in business suits and firm well shaped butts. Yummy.
I assume you've seen Deadly Friend?Quote:
Originally Posted by Zemi
I have a bit of a nun fetish. This is entirely based on a desire to cuckold Jesus. I am not kidding.
I have an unfulfilled fantasy of making love to a woman who remains perfectly still and does not react to my actions. It's not anything creepy like she's asleep or dead. I just think it would be a fascinating amount of control on her part to remain completely non-reactive to something so intimate, and it would be a challenge to see if I could break that control.
I am attracted to dark skinned women for the sole reason that I love the potential contrast between their skin and mine when placed in close proximity to one another.
I don't think my kinks are that odd, but I sometimes think the causes for those kinks are.
A quirky one I noticed lately, lip biting - more particularly the lower lip, corner of the mouth bite/suck thing that's typically related to pondering/weighing of options, etc. With slight neck tilt if possible.
It's odd, I've never identified it as a turn on before but when someone pointed out the exact facial expression and according body language (not fear lip-biting or lust-lidded but playful/thinking it seems overly specific but it's the associated body language, fear is a huge turn off for me) that I recognized my response was towards the pose and not necessarily connected to other elements (physical attractiveness, degree of nudity, environmental context).
- Ma'at
Ever since I read that Neil Gaiman story where the girl takes a cold bath and then tries to lie very still during sex 'cuz the guy she's seducing is into corpses, I've thought it would be kinda hot to try that.Quote:
Originally Posted by cappadocius
Omitting the cold bath would make it a lot more comfortable, but I'm not sure if it's quite as attractive to me without the faux-necrophilia angle. :o
It's funny what you can learn about yourself when you are lucky enough to marry a woman who likes to have fun and is willing to experiment. When it's S&M time, it turns out I'm the S. And I certainly never would have thought it. It's not something I ever thought about or fantasized about, but it's something we explored together and I really like it. Put a paddle in my hand and a young woman over my knee and I'm going to enjoy myself....umm...quite a bit. It seems I like a rosy red ass a lot more than the next guy.
Of course, there's also a streak of domination fantasy, but that's apparently pretty tame around here. There's also incest fantasies, specifically brother/sister stuff, but I don't actually have a sister so I don't know if it makes it more or less wierd.
Hmm....somehow I still don't really think of myself as all that kinky. Everybody has something weird but aren't always willing to talk about these things, right?
My kinks are like the spring breeze, wafting hither and yon...I've found a great many things that are fun, but nothing the just hits me like a lightning bolt and turns me into a shambling beast bent on nothing but carnal pleasures. I enjoy BDSM and switch with joy, I find tons of variations in the human form to be delectable, and aside from a few things that just make me go "ick" I'm gave for any number of new tastes, sensations, and the like...so I guess all in all I'm pretty damned dull :o
See, entirely not judging, but adding the faux-necrophilia angle takes it from fantastic to creepy for me. I've had arguments with friends who keep trying to move that fantasy into simulated date rape or necrophilia, and that's just not it. She's fully conscious, fully consensual, warm and willing. She's not frigid, definitely not. She's just lying there, not moving and, ideally, *visibly* not reacting. Like I implied, I think it *is* a control thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gloombunny
life can be torturous when your fetishes are simply body parts which are almost always in view, and ones that are often in view in summer.
have bigger, major kinks, but for simple turn-ons, I have to switch the sensors to "off" a whole lot. it bothers me in that sense that ... I could be staring and they'd not know why, and that feels like intrusion or wrongdoing on my part.
Always liked skinhead girls myself, but you have to be extremely pretty to pull of a skinhead if you are a woman IMHO.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dolanen
http://justintadlock.com/wp-content/...n-vendetta.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by AikiGhost
Hm, I can certainly see how that specific a scenario would be considered unusual.Quote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
I think I'm unusual in that almost all of my kinks involve acronyms. :p
Lovely..
And Ill raise you a Cate :DQuote:
Originally Posted by cappadocius
http://www.fortunecity.com/lavender/...0/488f4580.jpg
No, I totally understand the appeal as a control thing. I think I just like the necro veneer for a bit of taboo-breaking spice, or maybe just as a goth thing. :oQuote:
Originally Posted by cappadocius
There's some pretty hardcore My Life as a Teenage Robot fanfic out there.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zemi
(Some of it's remarkably erudite. I mean, how many typical fanficcers know what a Von Neumann machine is, much less how to work the concept into a porn scenario?)
Dude, to quote my Internet Family Motto - "If I were 16 and fictional..."Quote:
Originally Posted by David J Prokopetz
XJ-9 is a teenaged robot hottie.
Hm. Actually, is it a weird kink/fetish if you're into cartoon women, but only if you're also a cartoon and of an appropriate age?
I've got no shame, so I'll let it loose.
My biggest thing is bondage. Especially rigid, heavy-duty restraints, rather than ropework. I enjoy seeing futuristic 'super restraints' in super hero comics.
But in addition to bondage...
Same.Quote:
Originally Posted by David J Prokopetz
Same attitude(real clothes, not purposely sexual), but focuses on mostly one clothing item: belts. Belted jeans, belted skirts, belted dresses, belts showing under an overcoat are all a strong kink of mine. it branches of to people wearing uncomfortable, tight or restricting clothing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Noir Chevalier
Re:the 'bitch, angry woman'
I dislike aggresive, overly ambitious and derisive people in real life. But in fantasies, I can get really excited by an agressive and 'bossy' or 'bitchy' bussineswoman or policewoman type. Doesn't apply to men though, only to specifically to females.
Ann Coulter looked hot when I saw her drawn as a nazi dominatrix, but when I googled to find out who she is, I sobered up and felt dirty in a bad way.
Also:
Gasmasks/breath control.
Tough, solid wristbands and bracelets. Wristwatches, but only if they're made from plastic. Chunky things on wrists in general.
Thirst torture, as in teasing a thirsty person with a glass of cool water that they want so much.
Switching the roles of the sub and dom at random or as a part of an overreaching 'game' between the partners.
'Hollywood Egyptian' imagery, which ties with the big bracelets and thirst. I also like the Ankh symbol as a motif.
I might need a forklift.
Far be it from me to encourage another man’s flour-eating, but have you seen this?Quote:
Originally Posted by Zemi
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c6ZSZGUlHZ8
Not accusing you of badwrongfun, but my pacifism goes out the window when anyone brings a gasmask near me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Oblivious ignorant elf
Is it the one based off of Henstell's Friend novel? If so, I've heard of it, and I've read the novel (at a very young age, too) and would not rule out this story being a contributing factor, especially if you buy into the whole 'events in youth shape sexual identity' school of philosophy.Quote:
Originally Posted by jamasiel
I can neither confirm nor deny having looked up this fanfic in a moment of weakness. Also, I am now deeply interested in how one could turn a Von Neumann machine sexual. Not in a "Ooh Baby" way, just extremely curious.Quote:
Originally Posted by David J Prokopetz
Click.Quote:
Originally Posted by UKPete
Bookmark.
Save.
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Not shocked by any of the stuff I've seen here...except for the suggestion that someone might actually like to eat a spoonful of flour. I'm not joking here. YEUUUUUCH! :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by UKPete
I missed this before. I'm not implying that my kinks are necessarily shocking, but in comparison to some of the things listed, I felt like the perviest perv of all! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by UKPete
Oh, in comparison to me, I’m sure you are Sir Pervy McPerv, winner of the Greater Pervonia ‘Mr Perv’ competition three years running. And long may the trophy (the shape of which is simply too disturbing to describe) remain on your mantelpiece.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
I just don’t get any sense of shock or surprise or, well, anything, really in response to finding out about such matters. Which is a pity… All this should feel at least a little naughty, shouldn’t it? A little shocking? I know my SO is occasionally aghast at some of the things people get up to, and I find myself looking at her in the same way I do when she’s eating korma and I’m on vindaloo and she’s saying it’s all a bit spicy for her…
Noise. More than touching or seeing, it's hearing the moans that does it for me.
There are others, but that'll do for now.
Hm. . . well. . . let me check and see if it's okay to out myself.Quote:
Originally Posted by UKPete
I know a person who's kinky and into wearing all kinds of fetish/bondage stuff, but she says she's completely against anything on her head or face. Sort of 'anti-kink'.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
The honest answer would be "most of them", but a fairly consistent one for me is women in uniform, especially a nurse, policewoman or air hostess. Not sure where that one comes from.
Redheads, glasses, skirts, bd (not so much the sm, but if it helps get her going, we can talk), freckles, and if she's into receiving it in "unorthodox" locales, that helps too.
The only thing I have that's notable is I'm rather xenophilic; this isn't that different in type than a lot of guys who like women who are distinctive looking and somewhat alien (I'm attracted to a fair number of Asian women visually for example, and its a contributor to the appeal I see in many goth girls), but I also find, well, humanoid non-humans appealing; elves, demonesses, vampires, cat girls, XTs in the sent-from-central-casting form--you pretty much name it. Naturally the latter are what are often called "imaginary" fetishes for the obvious reason (though to some extent they of course can be pursued in the dress-up kind of way).
Like I said, it seems like just an extreme form of the outgrouping urge a lot of male humans have, but it is kind of extreme (of course I need to find the girl involved aesthetically appealing in the first place, but toss a set of horns on her or some other nonhuman traits, and my interest spikes up pretty well).
Out with it. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
If only to give the thread some actual weirdness.
Women with feline qualities, or who are acting like cats in general.
http://www.depts.ttu.edu/sociologyan...2-10_small.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by monkeyfarm
http://www.fighttimes.com/magazine/i...cised-foot.jpg
http://orreport.com/wp-content/uploa...8/02/heart.jpg
Man, Tangency can always make me feel vanilla.
Murdering for lulz, headbutting you to show affection, burying their poop, and licking their own vagina?Quote:
Originally Posted by IceShadow
ME = VA-NILLA!
:D One of the things I wasn't going to mention.Quote:
Originally Posted by IceShadow
I am engaged to a cat-girl, basically :D And it's wonderful.
You just tipped something over in my memory. A year or so ago, when I was trying out for Stan Lee's Who Wants To Be A Superhero, my mistress of the time had a suggestion. (This is the one from whom I posted pics of, in which she was spanking my fiancee with a riding crop.) And she had a moment of brilliant insight into my psyche. She said: You know, you're into this superhero thing. We could roleplay that out sometime, if you want. I'd dress up as a supervillainess for you and you could defeat my evil scheme. And then there'd be hero/villain forbidden passion. Would you like that?Quote:
Originally Posted by Oblivious ignorant elf
I nearly croaked. Seriously. Had to turn it down because I was afraid it would ruin me. The idea of her in, I don't know, tights/leotard and mad scientist goggles (I really imagine her as the mad scientist type) rattles every gland in my body. It's sort of...pre-sexual, if you will. Like subtle tectonic grinding that makes scientists thing that something's getting ready to toss California into the ocean.
Man, if you're going to be posting high-res photos of gory open wounds, at least slap a warning on them.Quote:
Originally Posted by cappadocius
Not really, absolutely (if you count nuzzling as headbutting, which is more what cats do), not at all, and...well, I've never met a girl that flexible, but sure, why not. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by cappadocius
Slap a bowl of milk or food on the floor and have her eat from that, though...or make cat-like sounds (meowing, purring)...
Do you have a cat? I've worried my seven pound cat has broken my nose before, after jumping onto my diaphragm and slamming the top of her head into my face.Quote:
Originally Posted by IceShadow
I'm flattered she loves me so much, but, damn son, what my cat does ain't nuzzling.
Smart is sexy. Cute girl with glasses and books and the intelligence to back the image = HAWT.Quote:
Originally Posted by WyzardWhately
Also, Evey Carnahan. :D
One of the more unorthodox kinks I have is enjoying watching cute girls transform transformer toys - extra points if it's Jetfire, Nightbeat or any of my favs.
My fiancée is more than willing to help out with most of my fantasies, as well. Not 100% of the time, of course, but more than enough to keep it satisfied. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Morticutor UK
... I've had about six or seven different cats over the course of my lifetime (mostly when I lived with my parents), and they've gotten another four after I left, and that's nothing I've ever heard of. So it might be your cat that's odd. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by cappadocius
Well, GTS is one kink I have.Quote:
Originally Posted by rrr
Now I'm curious who else knows what that stands for. :D
For lack of a better term, I have a thing for moderately butchy women. Short hair, and more masculine or androgynous clothing choices.
I seem to have mild macrophilia and soft voraphilia myself as kinks, but I find 99% of internet content devoted to them to be very boring, gross, or offensive. Apparently, my interest in them comes from a completely different angle than most people's so I just feel pissed off and frustrated if I try to look around on the internet. Also, the interest doesn't seem to be primarily sexual but I don't really understand what it is. (It's also limited entirely to giantesses.)Quote:
Originally Posted by AliasiSudonomo
*nods in agreement*Quote:
Originally Posted by Belac
Why do you think I don't talk about it lots? (My one exception is no vore, no how.)
Your attachment to Australian television wins you no bonus points here, buster!Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
Kidding -
huh, I've seen porn/photoshops devoted to this, but never heard from someone who claimed it as their own.
My roommate LOVES that song. He uses it as an example of "what he likes" when we're having arguments about whether "my type" of sex is overly complicated or his is "overly vanilla."Quote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
So I'm gonna say it's not a kink, but then it obviously is in the eye of the beholder...
Several aspects to it. But it can be very dangerous in screwing up someone's head unless done carefully (fortunately I've never screwed up that much). Also it takes a lot of trust between the partners before it will work.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hafwit
The person (or persons - it can be done mutually but is much more dangerous) being hypnotised can literally feel (and taste and see if it's working well) the sensations from whatever fantasy is being played out. Take cybersex, and then imagine that instead of processing it and imagining what was happening you felt it directly. This IME works best when mixed with real sensations - two good simple suggestions I use are to increase the skin sensitivity, and 'mirroring' - sensations in one place are also feet somewhere else. Normally either side to side (so if I nibble the left corner of my girlfriend's mouth she feels it on the right corner as well) or transference so that sensations felt in the mouth are felt somewhere lower down (no, I don't propose to be more explicit - use your imaginations!)
The other easy use is that it makes for extremely good BDSM with no need for any sort of equipment. That imaginary cuff is as secure as you both want it - and will not cut off the circulation. The rape fetish can be played out to the point that the person with the fetish will not even recognise the 'rapist' and physically can't cry out - and feels safe enough to have it played out because subconsciously they know who it is (i.e. the best of both worlds for someone with such a fetish) D/s is extremely easy, extremely powerful, and I'd suggest a really really bad idea to do much of (here's where you can really screw up someone's head). And as for S&M, you can either induce whatever sort of pain you want with a few words or sooth it with a few words. (This last can be extremely useful for accident prone people outside the bedroom btw).
Edit: hypnosis isn't for me a kink so much as a very useful tool for just about any kink (or even vanilla).
I am shocked, shocked to hear of an interest in BDSM in this place.Quote:
Originally Posted by UKPete
Something like that?
Does that kind of hypnosis really work? The only reason I'm skeptical is because an S&M technique like that would almost certainly get coopted by the Bush administration, and I haven't heard of that happening yet ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by neonchameleon
Vice versa. :D :D :DQuote:
Originally Posted by SteveD
I think everybody here knows in a general sense what I'm into. I pretty much live for power games, particularly "resistance play" (best described as dominance and submission without much in the way of submission). I'm a switch. And very little turns me on more quickly than slash or guy-on-guy action -- even a guy just idly expressing admiration for another guy starts to get me revved up.
GHOST FUCKER!:DQuote:
I will also admit to a vague sexual attraction to ghosts, but my inquisitive nature overrides it mostly.
Male weight gain is my fetish. I love guys with large appetites for both food and sex. ;) This fetish has progressed to include overweight men in general.
Deviant Art has many accomplished furry weight gain artists, but there is a serious lack of human pictures. :(
Hehe. You'd enjoy my college dorm room on Friday night, then. One time I was hanging around with my gay roommate (not the roommate I mentioned earlier, although he was there too) and acting rather hyper, so the two guys decided to tie me to the loft and gag me with duct tape, and then proceeded to act homoerotic :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Hime
It works but not in a way that the Bush administration would like. Unless the person being hypnotised lets themself be hypnotised, it simply won't work. And the better the imagination of the hypnotic subject (note: not the hypnotist although the skill of the hypnotist has some influence), the more that can be done. If the hypnotic subject really doesn't want to have a suggestion happen, it won't (and probably has a good chance of destroying any other suggestions from the hypnotist if too much pushing is done).Quote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
I doubt the Bush administration has a lot of use for S&M techniques which require the willing cooperation of the sub or bottom.
And on another subject normally need to steer clear of physical power games - I'm a 6'2" man who lifts weights who thinks he's about 5'6" and fairly weak and who doesn't see why that should stop him from winning through determination and skill.
I have the usual 21st century assortment of slight kinks, but what gets me when i think about them is that i essentially got infected with a shoe fetish from one of my exes. She really, really was into her shoes, and i accompanied her going shoe shopping, and she commented a lot about other women's shoes, and now i have seemingly idelible associations between well made, stylish high heels and sexiness, intelligence and just general dateability - to the exent that i immediatly ignore women that wear flip flops, ugg boots or badly balanced or fitting high heels as potential partners. It takes conscious effort for me to ignore that when i meet wonderful people wearing "bad" footwear. And on the flip side i can't imagine going out wearing sneakers or combat boots anymore - it feels like, i don't know, wearing a swimsuit to a dinner or something.
Gssh
Heh. I have the opposite, in a way... I had an ex who wore heels because she felt she was incredibly attractive and had a social obligation to show off, but hated the way they felt... so I associate heels with dainty submissiveness...Quote:
Originally Posted by GssH
The main reason I keep my hair short is that I love to have my neck touched, kissed, bitten, etc... even with random strangers, I kind of like to think that they might be *thinking* about my neck. :oQuote:
Originally Posted by Dolanen
The funny thing is, you've made some jokes about that fetish before, and I'd read them as making fun of people who have it and actually gotten a bit pissed at you. :o I have a friend who's extremely into it and, um... am myself a big fan of one Heineken Draughtkeg ad in particular.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zemi
That makes it less weird. Srsly. My relationship with my brother is one of the biggest constants in my life. I have a friend who writes brother/brother stuff that is extremely hot, but I can only read it if I'm training myself "don't think about *your* brother..." :p Or I get massively squicked.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaiten
Dogs are usually like that, too.Quote:
Originally Posted by Oblivious ignorant elf
(not that I would ever read dog-training manuals to mine them for kinky ideas... *halo*)
I do that (gently).Quote:
Originally Posted by cappadocius
I wish I could do that. :pQuote:
licking their own vagina?
I am trying to talk one Chaya into something like this. :D In a tabletop RPG if not in actual sexytime. LOVE the hero/villain dynamic.Quote:
Originally Posted by WyzardWhately
Wouldn't work. All hypnosis is self-hypnosis -- the person being hypnotised has to be an enthusiastic participant.Quote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
OMG STOP BREAKING MY BRAIN WITH FRAT-BOY SLASH. OMG. WTF. *goes to take cold shower*Quote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
That reminds me... one of my earliest fantasies, inspired by Sid Meier's Alpha Centauri Alien Crossfire expansion. They had a faction in the game that was emotionless cyborgs, and the leader was a very attractive girl with a chip in her head. I immediately thought the idea of having ones' thoughts modified voluntarily with a computer chip was HOT. I only sort of get it now, but yeah...Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Hime
Uh, sleep, I guess.
Like any circumstance in fiction where characters are unwillingly made to sleep, say by a spell or chemicals or whatever.
Examples where it intersects with ordinary hotness include Saffron's knockout lipstick in Firefly, but it gets me going regardless of if hot females are involved. It's something about the giving in, the moment when the character realises they need to try to stay awake and then . . . just drift off.
I've no idea if or how that could be implemented as roleplay, but there it is.
-Proteus
Damn, you're really getting me on a roll here. (I really hope no one can link me conclusively to my real name...) While sleep isn't really my thing, I do have a thing for the prostitute fantasy... which is why I love Inara on Firefly, and one of the reasons why Phedre no Daulaunay from the Kushiel series is AWESOME...Quote:
Originally Posted by Proteus
Ding.Quote:
Originally Posted by Qetu
Ding.Quote:
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Ding.Quote:
Originally Posted by SteveD
Ding (Check out the milkmaid at 2:33-2:36. You'll thank me for it.)Quote:
Originally Posted by Bahama'at
Ding.Quote:
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Ding.Quote:
Originally Posted by Max
So, all of the above, and there's nothing that can really top that if she's a nice zaftig lass to boot.
I have waaaay more-- I'll post later if I'm feeling brave enough.
+1. Audrey Hepburn is one of my biggest crushes, because she's so pretty. Not so much sexy, I go for cute and pretty over sexy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dolanen
I also like voyeurism, though that's probably fairly common. Feels weird admitting this, but upskirt is a "treat" I'll go for whenever I possibly can, as well as any other form.
That's all I can think of...though perhaps someone can explain http://www.carstuckgirls.com/ to me? I'm really curious what attraction is there.
In my own experience, there's definitely an element of voluntary roleplaying to it, but it's not strictly "let's pretend"; it's often possible to induce physiological effects that the subject wouldn't be able to simulate under normal circumstances.Quote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
Also...humiliation. I'm so much of a "nice-guy" that the idea of humiliating girls I actually know is more of a turn-off, but imaginary/fictional girls in humiliating situations? Rawr.
I hope that doesn't make me a misogynist. x.x
Well, the obvious and boring one is eyeglasses. I have a Thing for a person wearing eyeglasses or spectacles of some sort (monocles do NOT do it for me, though).
The slightly odd one is androgyny: if I can't tell whether someone is female or male, I'm INCREDIBLY turned on by it. I see it as one of the few benefits of being bi that I don't actually care if the object of my desire is male or female, just that I can't tell.
Here's one that's kind of strange, I think: roleplaying. I mean, actually sitting down at a table and pretending to be someone else for a while, getting into someone else's head, that kind of thing. Wife(v.2.0) has mentioned that "game night" is sometimes a favourite night of ours, because i get so worked up. I should make clear that it's not at any point about the OTHER people at the table, just that my experience of roleplaying can be sexually stimulating. And, of course, some of the best sex I ever had, I had in-character.
They're... girls whose cars have broken down?Quote:
Originally Posted by Nigel
That's an odd one. I have read erotic stories starting with the trope of a guy "rescuing" a woman whose car has broken down, and I can see the appeal there -- the sense of obligation creates a real D/s dynamic that can lead in interesting directions. But without the rescue part, I don't see the sexy, and coming from me that's saying something.
What's that old saw about 'doth protesting too much'? :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Hime
Really, though, I wouldn't crack wise about somebody's sexual stuff unless I shared that sexual stuff, since said sexual stuff is a very personal thing and not suitable for mockery. What someone does behind closed doors is their own business, so long as everyone's consenting, as far as I'm concerned.
And I have that ad in my bookmarks. I watch it more than a couple times a month. Ahem.
That's kind of strange, I almost have the complete opposite reaction. :pQuote:
Originally Posted by Oblivious ignorant elf
As other posters have mentioned, light bondage, fetish gear is reasonably attractive (though 'vanillia' for this day and age.) Bring gags or blindfolds into the equation though, or to a lesser extent, anything that takes away the frame of reference to the face... Do not pass go, go directly to aroused. Never quite figured out why.
Naturally, pics to the like, (Along with a fair bit of the more vanillia stuff) take up space on my harddrive. Unfortunately, around 75% of the stuff I find online doesn't seem to 'work' so to speak. Probably because I despise stuff that seems degrading and, with this particular fetish at least, that seems to be most of what's out there.
This is why I haven't been playing. I guess that's what I get for using my real name on a board for the first time. :pQuote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
I can be a bit vague, though, I guess; a lot of my interests sometimes have an element of helplessness (for the not-me person), but not in a threatening way. I'm not a fan of pain myself, and I wouldn't want to inflict same unless the other person wanted it. For example, the idea of a woman restrained and worked on with happy-making-toys is something I find incredibly hot. Same for a woman restrained and made to orgasm involuntarily with hypnosis (tough to do but much easier for women).
Also there's a bunch that I'm at least academically interested in; the idea of 'resistance play' Hime mentioned is something that I find very interesting, but I've never tried it so I don't know if it's a thing of mine or just something I find fascinating. Resistance makes more sense to me than submission, but I haven't really explored why. But it probably comes back to that helplessness thing.
I think that's enough about me for now. Kind of a basic overview, but hey. :o
A broken down car is like a heavy ball chained to one's ankle.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Hime
If you exit your broken down car, you are naked in a way.
Accepting a tow from a stranger is like accepting a leash&collar, a little bit.
Getting hopelessly stuck in mud or whatever and desperately grinding against it can, to some people, parallel attempting to reach an orgasm.
Those can be exciting with a rescue involved, but some people might just like to look at someone who is pretty, in trouble, frustrated, hot and bothered and unable to go anywhere... :p
Like a few people here, I like guys with glasses. However, the 'uglier' the glasses, the better. Rimless specs, meh. Tortoiseshell aviators from 1982 with lenses you could fry ants with, yum!!! I also like it if the fellow is a bit on the wonky looking side himself- big nose, messy hair, slightly oversized front teeth [1].
Yeaaaah, I saw "Revenge of the Nerds" when I was 13 and I think it kind of screwed up my attraction-ometer and it never developed normally (i.e. I find Brad Pitt repulsive, but Seth Rogan adorable).
It's probably not a kink, per say, though. I've had thoughts about scenes with vampires (well, nerd vampires) but I think that nowadays, that's pretty mainstream (the vampires, not the nerds).
[1]I once told a friend I found their ever so slightly buck teeth to be 'charming'. They seemed surprised and a bit freaked out and we never mentioned it again.
Geez... where were you when I was 15?Quote:
Originally Posted by Little_Rat
:D
I'm curious about this one. How can you have gags or blindfolds without being at least slightly "degrading?" I guess I'm really quibbling over how you define that word, as to me all bondage is a bit of degradation - and especially gags and blindfolds. The reasoning behind that is also why I think it becomes so hot: there's so little reason to take away someone's power with a gag or blindfold, other than simply to deny them awareness and communication, and thus in some way take them out of the sphere of "person" and into the sphere of "object." It goes beyond simple ropes and chains.Quote:
Originally Posted by DogMeat
Which, given consent on all ends, is really damn hot.
You are just...infuriatingly fortunate. Do you know that?Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Hime
;)
I like flying boats (hangs head in shame)
Yeah, this is a fit for me as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by IceShadow
In fact, so do various others, from mind-control chips, to superhero fantasies, to hypnotism. But at the root of it all is that same desire for control I mentioned earlier, which just doesn't strike me as particularly strange.
Some general thoughts:
I'm with SteveD about the minor Dom thing, but for me its very specific; it's not because it makes me feel powerful, even though it does. For me, instead, it's because it makes me feel like a conqueror. A slight difference, perhaps, but important.
Let's see, what are some of those other button-pushers? (And for the record, I really don't care who knows what about my sexual proclivities; my internet footprint is the size of Kansas anyway. Hi, Google indexing robots!)
Zaftig girls; redheads (natural, not bottle); very particular types of platinum blondes; classic Jewish girls with the dark curly locks; small and subtle tattoos; nipple piercings; belly rings (but no hardware south of the equator, thanks); hands-on-the-neck style choking (me or her, doesn't matter); glasses of all kinds, very very geeky girls (example, Betty Suarez is much, much hotter than America Fererra); the way some girls do that split-second eyebrow raise that suggests they've got dirty things on their mind -- see the redhead in the recent Lost finale for a very hot example); that redhead ;); I like the idea of corrupting girls, breaking down their otherwise disciplined behavior -- eat the donut, buy the shoes. You know you should. You want to. Do it. (but it's only good if the girl wants that thing but knows she 'shouldn't' for whatever reason); sundresses; breaking taboos; girls naked except for socks; girls with panties around their ankles during sex.
I could go on. My only rule with this is that famous line "never work with children or animals". Apart from that, and a few very, very select others, I'll do it, and to a certain extent it likely pushes my buttons already.
Maybe I just didn't phrase it the right way.Quote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
I think it sort of has to do with the difference between hardcore and softcore. That's really what I was shooting for. Maybe 'tasteful as opposed to tasteless' would be a better way to put it.
Yuppers. I've a friend in a stressful line of work I regularly suggest some of the stress away from with, thus far, a hundred per cent success rate.Quote:
Originally Posted by David J Prokopetz
Suggestion has to be acceptable to the subject. That's the key thing to remember. Anything they're keen to experience or interested in experiencing they can.
See, now that's just an awesome visual right there...Quote:
Originally Posted by cappadocius
And also, in a more mainstream thing... Unusual hair color; dyed bright red, blue, green etc. I find that rather attractive for some reason.
I do hereby give Tokezo Tenken permission to gaze longingly at WakkaPics and compliment them, if it'll help, oh Happily Married Princessly One.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Hime
:D
Pregnant women.
Well HELLO there!Quote:
Originally Posted by Little_Rat
:)
Oh, for those playing at home, I'm pretty much vanilla. Oh, there's things I enjoy... well-done erotica (No need for Penthouse spreads, bleah, but naked-with-sheets-just-so or the like? Woo!), skirts (always win), heels, glasses, necklines (I will work a neckline for, like, an *hour*. They're FUN), graceful backs, and, of course, the terrible temptation of a braless world under a shirt, but able to make some detail out? Woo. Overall, teh tease is *way* better than the full monty, which is why skirts that are pleated are better than tight, and both are better than shorts, even if teh latter are longer.
That being said, what with teh self esteem issues and all, my goal is simple: To do whatever my partner wants/needs to make them enjoy it. Not a submissive thing so much as I take requests. "You want what done to your where? Well, if that's what you like, I'm game." Way giving. I figure, hey, I'm a *guy*. At the end of teh day, I'm pretty much going to enjoy things, but, the girl's a much more complex instrument. Kinda like comparing a triangle to a pipe organ. And, by thunder, I will play it ragged, even if it takes three hours to get teh notes right.
So, I guess I'm mostly kink-free at this stage, but who knows what tomorrow will bring.
Now, I just need to find somebody to play *with*, and it's a good day.
-- Wak
(Ladies, please send applications and risque photos to Wakshaani@yahoo.com)
I also like women significantly shorter than me or significantly taller than me (I'm 5'9"). I'm talking 4'5" to 5'6" or 6' to 6'4".
The rest of my kinks are pretty straightforward: breasts and bisexual women in groups of 2 or more.
Garter belts! The first time I met Mrs. the fasteners of her garter showed through the thin polyester of her uniform skirt. I knew right then that I had to tip her over!
Women with high sex drives that are unapologetic about it. I'd say "slutty women," but too many I've met were slutty for other reasons; I only get tweaked by the ones who do it out of sheer, unslakeable lust.
Sex in public places. Whether it's a deserted park or the lot of a closed business, or at an appropriately-themed party, being watched (or the possibility of being watched) gets me going.
Overpowering my partners. This one took me a while to get into. Rape or lack of consent was a complete dealbreaker to my libido, to the point that Little Bad Example would actually "take his toys and go home." However, Ms. and Mrs. launched a campaign to rid me of this reaction, and they were quite successful. Now I can fully participate in their "weird kink" fantasies, which have also become mine. :D (I still can't work with drunk or otherwise incapacitated women, though, even with women whom I know are consenting.)
Two that go with the above- moaning and wordplay. Hungry Like the Wolf drove me crazy as a teen, and roleplay-style dirty talk does as well.
And, foreign languages, the more unintelligible to me the better. Ms. is really good at that, as she's fluent in Polish and French, but Mrs. was the first the trip this particular trigger with German. Nothing like a stream of impenetrable babble during the act to get my full attention...
cheers,
Matt
Sorry, left out "undead/feral girls." I've been bitten (hard enough to draw blood) by prosthetic fangs, and once had a girlfriend who, unasked, performed the ice cube trick. Once, my scalp was flayed by a self-described were-nympho; interesting wounds to explain to my co-workers. Mmmm!
Wide, varied, considerable, previously posted elsewhere on this forum.
Matching underwear. Seriously, gets me every time.
I like the "teen runaway"look -- not real teens obviously (too young to be interesting even where legal) but scruffy bad girls and DID's -- le sigh...
Glasses, pretty eyes and/or red hair are sexy but they aren't a fetish anymore than appreciating nice legs or pretty feet is.
I also like metal restraints though usually not on the look above for some reason -- institutional restraints are cool too (SJ or straps) but image wise I am only into it if they are voluntary or highly fictitious. Seeing real girls get arrested or the like gives me the blues.
I think I have a big protective streak that just got bent 180 degrees somehow.
also though not kinky at all I love a gal that can bring out my laughter -- its rare as I am a sour son of a bitch but when it happens -- sigh.....
lastly I think it would be awesome to have a pet girl -- not for a long time -- just for a little while. Maybe I'd shave her head and keep her as pet till it grew back or something -- thats my kinkiest fantasy I'd guess
I'd get very bored with it after a a few months but for a for a little while OH YEAH! :o
I said trying. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by WyzardWhately
Oh, yeah, here's another one - women enduring difficult situations but staying happy about it. In some strange way, it's connected to a bondage fetish, I think... but it's really odd.
I got another one. Fur. No, I don't mean anthro stuff, but fur coats and stuff like that.
It surely helps. I'd imagine there may be a few that just look better bald by some strange fluke of their structure. Portman certainly makes the grade buzzed. The bald one from the original Star Trek movie was hot. Sinead O'conner was quite the looker, though she was nuttier than squirrel shit.Quote:
Originally Posted by AikiGhost
Oh, yes. Love the cute ones. And Hepburn was cute with class all the way.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nigel
There's actors I miss for their ability and there's people I miss for their soul. Then there's Audrey.
I have permission from my girlfriend to post this.
Now both of us enjoy light biting, which is of course pretty vanilla, but what's unusual is that nothing drives my girl wilder than biting my nose.
I have a minor thing for inflation, especially growing breasts. It used to be my main kink, but it's been sort of eclipsed by more vanilla stuff over the years.
What's odd is that my first sexual fantasies I can remember having (when I first started masturbating, around age 8) were about couples having sex and inflating/growing into moon-sized spheroids. Note that this is well before I had any idea how the mechanisms of sex actually worked.
These days, I think my strongest kink is people (male or female, I'm not picky) being caused to have very powerful, ideally multiple, orgasms, to the point of passing out if possible. I don't think it's a control/dom thing, exactly, since D/S play leaves me pretty cold.* The recent trend of Sybian-use videos has been.... very useful for me.
So, is that weirdness level more satisfying?
* Although, from reading this thread, resistance play sounds intriguing. Could be a problem for me to try, though, since I'm 6' 4", ~360#, and ridiculously strong. When I visited, I made Wak feel petite. :)
Ah, Prime Function Aki-Zeta-Five. Although that's not a particular fetish of mine, her voice did (and still does) give me goosebumps.Quote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
Aw, you can't just leave us hanging like that. I couldn't even figure it out with google. :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
Ooh, that reminds me a bit of that scene in Serial Experiments Lain where she's sitting around in a slip with various wires clipped to her, just kind of staring into space and talking in this sort of dreamy monotone. If only that scene centered on an adult woman instead of a 14-year-old girl, I think it could be really hot somehow. :oQuote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Macrophilia is what I could find.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gloombunny
Basically, loving giants.
GianTesSQuote:
Originally Posted by Gloombunny
;)
Actually, it's the oddly-named mini-gts I really like. (8' - 15')
GTS = giantess. Female humanoids (humans, furries, alien humanoids, etc) generally at least twelve feet tall and usually a lot bigger. Lots of different subcategories and divisions, including between people with a strong sexual attraction, a mild sexual attraction, and a non-sexual attraction (such as women who like them as images of feminism.) Members of the "GTS community" don't always get along very well because some of us just think Miriya from Macross was hotter before she got micronized while others like to post pictures of 12-year old anime girls redrawn as giantesses and raping men to death in a gory fashion.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gloombunny
Um, I do have the even more embarrassing "GTS vore" fetish, which I've never admitted publicly until now, but mine is pretty strictly non-lethal stuff. (GTS vore is basically being fascinated by the idea of being swallowed alive by a giantess.) Whoever made "Dude Where's My Car?" probably has this fascination somehow.
I hadn't realized it before, but this one for me also. I think it started when I was young and reading the novelization of Superman 3, which apparently featured the villain's computer, near the end of the movie, merging with his sister and making all his plans go awry. I was just so fascinated by the description of the merge...Quote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
Oh, and Prime Function Aki-Zeta-Five helps too. :D I might call this a transhuman fetish, considering that hive minds and gestalt consciousnesses get me interested.
Other stuff...BDSM, but much less on the D/s part. What I find really hot is if the partner who's getting tied up/restrained is the one calling the shots. Resistance play as well.
As has been mentioned earlier by people, intelligence and love of books. Also redheadedness, but I'm turned on by both artificial and natural.
Also certain formal shirts for women. My ex wore one once (I was meeting her after an interview) and it was all I could do to not immediately start making out with her in the airport lobby. ...come to think of it we DID start making out in the airport lobby. :D
Dude. I think you copied my sexuality or something. Damn it!Quote:
Originally Posted by Allandaros
Now, I'm fascinated with the phrase "transhuman fetish." It's probably one of the few fetish things that's LESS disturbing than it sounds.
More stuff on further thought. Probably mainstream is tight body outfits, like catsuits. The robotic/transhuman thing is another that I like. The weirder is well, basically acting somewhat feral. Doesn't have to be a cat-like thing, either.
Uh... Let's see. Slime girls are interesting sometimes. Clones of yourself, or genderbending.
In clothing, a guy in a good suit can do the trick, or tight jeans without anything else.
Grease monkeys are good, male or female, and ladies in Lab suited attire.
Along those lines (the feral thing), I once had a thing for my own very stylized conception of Grendel's Mother.Quote:
Originally Posted by Adhara
Yep, I can subscribe to that one. I'm not going to be one of these men who's all "ew" when my wife is pregnant.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bipolar Bear
There a look that says "I really, really shouldn't. But I wanna."
Being the subject of that look, in pretty much any context (even, like, me saying 'We should go to a movie'), does good things for me.
I keep replying, but I keep thinking of more. This thread is an addiction - emotional dump, which is rare for me.
Leggings, almost to panty level, with matching underwear. Striped leggings if possible, with solid underwear.
The unreachable - that which I cannot have. The fact that I can't possibly ever do anything with her just trips my gentlemanly instincts, which are very strong for some reason, and I end up voluntarily putting myself in the "friend zone" (which I don't believe in anyhow). Maybe being a "knight in shining armor," if you will? Basically honorable actions, such as being a good friend to a girl who I am almost irresistibly attracted to, despite my feelings. Hard to describe properly because I'm currently in that situation, and it hurts all the more that I could've had her two years ago, or even 6 months. And I know that this particular turn-on will leave me truly lonely until I can get over it.
Teasing. Cleavage > bare breasts. Tight hot pants or whatnot > naked body. Et cetera, et cetera.
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Originally Posted by Bipolar Bear
Cut out the taller woman and I'm essentially a mirror of you. Go figure.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bipolar Bear
Yeah. Also, there's a couple of distinct branches - I've noticed the form of macrophilia among furries tends to be much more even in gender, not exclusively 'giantess' which is why I use the bigger, fancier word. ;) Similarly, it's not even always "big person terrorizes small ones", sometimes it's more a "big couple against the world", etc, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by Belac
The stuff about resistance play actually kind of sums up why I dig it, I think. There's a definite power imbalance if you're up against some twelve-foot giant/ess, but there's nothing in there about sweet submission. (Whereas the extreme side I find just sort of intellectually fascinating; if we make it the 500-foot woman, you have too much power; you don't even have the OPTION of something like normal interaction.)
In a similar imaginatory vein, superhuman capabilities. Ever see that picture of Juggernaut and She-Hulk in bed the 'morning after' a one-night stand? That's hot. ^^;
Female orgasms. A woman who's moaning and writhing in pleasure is hot.
Also, the standard domination/humilation of women stuff. Simulated rape, name calling, et cetera.
Well, in theory anyway. Bit of a virgin. I'd be a lot more open with the former than the latter, though. A guy who wants to get them off repeatedly would probably be a lot less awkward than a guy who wants to tie them up.
That's not kink, that's just being considerate.Quote:
Originally Posted by nick012000
Tightly buttone shirts, on the verge of popping open. I'm seriously on my knees if I see a woman wearing one.
Also, a bit of S&M stuff.
It all depends on how many orgasms you have given her and if shes begging you to stop or not. Forced orgasms are hot :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Kiero
Well, lots, and a number that I won't go into here.
But, here are a few to add to the thread.
In the macrophilia vein, I like that Tom of Finland and etc. porn with oversized dicks and nipples the size of BIG thumbs. Also, just large men in general (all you guys going on about how large you are - Stop it!!!) That said, I also like really short guys, but I like them big in some way, chubby or very muscular.
Someone mentioned being king, pharoah, etc. - hundreds of worshippers. I get off on that idea, but also being the one picked out to 'satisfy' the king. Also into the idea of phallic worship - see above for giant-sized cocks.
Onto the real-world stuff. As I like big guys, chubby guys, fat guys, I like to shave their crotches - you know, that little fat pouch above the dangly bits. It really highlights one of the parts I find most sexy.
Necrophilia. Especially when they're at that state where you can make additional holes at will.
Have I got a party for you! The invite is in the mail.Quote:
Originally Posted by Curupira
To be honest the moment I saw this I thought "GTS? GAMA Trade Show? Wow, Tenken REALLY likes his games."Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
You have no idea. :eek: ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by James Knevitt
Oh, I forgot to mention that I've also developed a fetish for girls who thoroughly play video games to get 100% everything (just like I do a lot). I picked this one up recently when my fiancee played through Castlevania: Curse of Darkness. :)
http://www.futurama-madhouse.com.ar/...v01/301-63.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
Tokezo Tenken like Snu Snu ;)
It's hard to be attracted to anything drawn by Groening.Quote:
Originally Posted by ReverendTom
What, you mean not even Kip?
Not even Kip.Quote:
Originally Posted by Karimarle
Okay, I've been mulling it over since yesterday, trying to decide if any of my kinks are "weird" in what I perceive to be the intent of the original poster.
Here's one, sorta:
Fucking (that is, the Ol' In-and-Out) is absolutely my least favorite way to achieve orgasm, and I've always been vaguely puzzled by the importance it plays in male sexual bragging. When it comes to my own physical gratification, I would 100% of the time rather have my partner take active steps to bring me to orgasm, rather than just laying there while I do all the work.
This is not to say that I don't like fucking as a method for inducing orgasm in others. But really, that's the ONLY reason I do it and enjoy it. I pretty much never achieve orgasm via intercourse, and when I do, I feel vaguely cheated.
That link is for "uhn-tiss uhn-tiss uhn-tiss", ain't it?Quote:
Originally Posted by James Knevitt
(Is it bad that I don't have to click it to know that?)
This.Quote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
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Originally Posted by Wakshaani
also this.
You're lack of a Kip fetish is NOT ok man :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Tokezo Tenken
Kif.
His name is Kif.
/pedant
You stick with your dirty perversions and leave me mine :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Bigwood
http://homepage.mac.com/xk9/.Pictures/woof/kip.jpg
;)
Heh, reminds me of the time I offered an online friend "Let's bet you can't beat this game within two months. The loser will be other's online sex slave". (not that we had time to do any slaving, it was laughs)Quote:
Originally Posted by Belac
The game was 'Do you want be the Dude?'. She got to Mike Tyson and gave up.
:D
I don't think most of mine are 'weird,' but that's probably just a reflection of cultures being more sexually open than they used to be. Many of them have already been mentioned.
Sexual activities in public places, spontaneously especially, is very nice. I think it partly satisfies some aspect of exhibitionism - the idea you could be caught.
The classic stockings, garter belts, lacey yummy things etc are all good. Why mess with what works?
High boots, short skirts.
Some domination, basically reflecting what oldgoodbadhabit said. Need to feel very comfortable to get off on it.
Also, his part about lustful women. Women who can match my libido are precious.
Hipster, vintage styles that thankfully pervade downtown Toronto. My current belle looks like an old time pin-up model.
Somebody said necks. Nice, exposed slender necks are very kissable.
Red-heads.
Summer weather.
Looking over your giant sunglasses at me with a pretentious smirk.
Fifty million other things.
Oh, and cute girls on bikes.
Necks and shoulders are indeed brainmeltingly delectable...it's really not fair.
Hey, I like Futurama, but I don't like Futurama, you know? ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by ReverendTom
Then you're obviously doing it wrong :pQuote:
Originally Posted by Bigwood
Here's a couple more, just for laughs, that I don't think are weird per se, since they're pretty much sexualizing something that's innately and inherently sexual, but they're...different.
-I like the idea of women being secretly sexual in public. There was a news story a few years back about a woman in the UK who went grocery shopping while wearing some vibrating dildo panties, and had an orgasm and passed out. I'm not so much with the passing out thing, because then everybody knows what's up. But the idea of a woman walking around, shopping for groceries, and occasionally having to stop while she has another orgasm? Hot hot hot. See also: Women wearing skirts/dresses and no panties. See also: Women going out in public while having a buttplug inserted.
-Like many guys, I like the idea of a woman masturbating (see above). There's a subset of female masturbation porn that involves "fucking machines" -- small (or large) mechanical devices, usually wheel and piston type things, with a dildo (or two) attached at the end. (Do a Google image search on "fucking machines" if you're curious. Be sure to turn off the filtering.) Le rowr rowr. Really turns my crank (pun intended).
Another bit of fun is the fact that they sell some of these vibrating panties as remote controlled models, which can certainly add a bit of fun to a couples shopping trips...or enhance a dull movie ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
Thank you, you put that a lot more succinctly and understandable then I ever could.Quote:
Originally Posted by monkeyfarm
You know, uh...I...um, a friend of mine...heard you can buy some of these online somewhere. Or something. <_< >_>Quote:
Originally Posted by Afterburner
Not much use if you're not a woman though :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Bigwood
Depends on how much of a voyeur you are.Quote:
Originally Posted by Something Else
There's a lot of things I like watching that I don't really have any interest in actually doing to my wife or having done to me.
Woo hoo!Quote:
Originally Posted by Karimarle
http://www.lorebrandcomics.com/image...threewords.gif
Y'know, I have posted a photo of Wak and I together in the "post your pics" thread, and I could probably be induced to find it again... ;)
Oh, goodness. That's hot!:o:DQuote:
Originally Posted by Karimarle